
One year ago today, a really great friend of mine passed away due to the ravenous effects of cancer. He put up a good fight and at times it seemed like he could beat it, but unfortunately for him and everyone that knew him, he couldn't. Ed was a great guy! We went to school and graduated together. In our early twenties, we shared an apartment together. My late teens and early twenties were some of the best times of my life. Ed and I had alot of crazy, fun times together. So many stories, alot of which, I can't discuss here. Lol. Unfortunately, we drifted apart and didn't have any contact with each other for many years. We grew up and settled down. I did the marriage thing for awhile and Ed did the father thing. Ed did a great job raising his daughter, he was a really good father. Ed and I reconnected about four years ago. He was now living in Florida. We spoke to each other at least once a week and got together whenever he came to Connecticut for a visit. I really miss those weekly conversations. In February 2011, Shelly and I had to make a last minute trip to The Keys for her daughter's memorial service. We were going to drive home right afterwards. Ed didn't think that was a good idea and had us stay the night at his place. We stayed there most of the next day also. I'm so glad we did, it was the last time I saw him. It was a great visit, even though the circumstances all around the visit were bad. I think about Ed alot. I have so many good memories, we had alot of good times together. I have a pendant with some of his ashes in it and anytime I go out and have a good time, part of Ed is with me. I miss you my friend, Kevin
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| Happier times! |
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| The most dressed up Ed and I would do back in the day! lol |
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| Our last visit together, just like the old days |
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| I miss ya Ed! |
I can only but imagine how much you miss your great friend Kevin - one of the sweet things in life is great mates. I love the pendant idea, I have a little box in the bottom of my bag with a little of someones ashes for over 8 years now and for very similar reasons to yours.
ReplyDeleteHugs to you and I love the photos, what a wild pair!! Good lookin' too......:) PS I PROMISE I'll be posting in a couple of days!!!!!!
Ed was a great mate Rose! We had alot of good times together! And you're right, we were a little wild ! Lol. I love having the pendant, Ed's brother gave it to me(Our big brother from the comment below), it's a nice addition to all the memories. And thanks about the good lookin' part, we did alright with the sheilas back in the day.Lol. P.S. can't wait for your post!
DeleteKevin, Thanks for being a real friend with Ed and me.This means alot to me and my family.It has been one of the hardest years of my life. But like they say, Ed is in a better place and pain free.The photos look great. Love, Your Big Brother Billy.
ReplyDeleteThanks for getting me all teary-eyed again today Billy! No thanks needed, I love you guys! You and your family have always treated me like family. You're right, Ed is in a much better place than us and he is not suffering anymore. Thanks for being the big brother I always wanted! Love ya Billy, Kevin
DeleteKevin I am so sorry to hear the loss of your good friend, and a fellow 85' classmate. We all should cherish the times we spend or spent with everyone whom has entered our lives. This is a well respected tribute you did.
ReplyDeleteThank you, H.M. SantaBarbara. Yes, life is too short and I agree. I would love to know who this is, if you don't mind. Send it to my e-mail if you want. But I thank you you for the feedback.
DeleteVery nice piece you wrote about your friend Ed..Got an idea how it feels to lose a friend or two myself..I do believe we all meet again in another place in time..Till then enjoy your time here and let those you love--know you love them..
ReplyDeleteWell said Jim, I agree. And thanks.
DeleteLife is full of unknowns. You never know when your last day will be. So make the most of every day that you are given. Be yourself, but make a lasting impression on the world. I can't begin to imagine your loss Kevin. But know that I pray for your peace.
ReplyDeleteSo true Lisa! Thanks!
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